i know most of you are fans of my cow.. and well i havent updated you on her life for a while.. she was fired from her last job because her inability to read or write was a major requirement :S so now she has started her new job as a house maid! :S
she mentioned that the couple that live there usually argue about the same thing...the fact that they are so different.. when i say different i'm not saying as individuals but as "MALES &FEMALES" and she felt the wife would always be talking all day... asking her husband & reminding him to get things done.. telling him the littlest details in her day... telling him her thoughts and feelings... while the husband would nod and might even doze off & get sick of her endless blabbing..
so i had to explain to cow some things i realized about males & females :
Woman think completely different than MEN.. what is so obvious to a woman does not usually occur to a man.. what WE think is the first thing that comes to our mind is the last that comes to theirs.. we feel talk IS communication... men feel talking must have a purpose... "give me a problem ill solve it " type of thing... Women think they are simple when they are so complex... men think they are complex when in reality they are really simple & easy to understand if you knew them well... Men are like big babies...
Conclusion is... MEN & Woman have had and will always have their differences.. that's how they were created... it shouldn't be a problem if they learn about those differences and adjust to them... if you are stubborn and so close minded thinking you are right & the other person is wrong.. things will definitely get worse...
its not about who is right or wrong.. or who wins... or even who is the strong one in the relationship.. its all about sacrifices... respecting & understanding each other.. loving each other without boundaries or limits...
p.s. cow slept by the end of this conversation :P
22 comments:
dina ya dina, i love ur stories and the way you put it all together
couldn't have said it better :)
Wallah nice :)
add
flexibility :)
Dino, you are both funny and wise. What a good wife you will make!
Dandoon waley!
As i always tell you i love your cartoons especially il bagara il cute il haseena!
i love your stories and how you can address the most sensitive subjects in the funniest and smartest ways...
im surprised that you of all people will face these "woman" issues because from my friendship with you i have realized you are far from being the annoying nagging wife and maybe you do talk a lot but everyone loves to listen to your stories!
listen everyone i see dina almost 15 hours a day... when im with her i feel like im in a MOVIE! What i love about her is that no matter what she goes through she always has a smile on her face
you r a bundle of love :)
Suha
oriental :) im glad you enjoy my blog ahlan wa sahalan anytime.. wa hay kasset shay :)
MQ yes flexibility is very important in a relationship :)
Kinzi... :) thank you... khajalteeeni i really hope so :)
SOOOOSAAA ya sweetie
i am soo lucky that i work with someone soo sweet! i keep imagining if i worked with someone annoying and had to deal with them everyday id go mad!! :)
inti kteer sweet & u r right my life is a MOVIE! glad you have joined my cast :)
i wish my wife was so much fun to listen to!! Your husband is a lucky man!
Mansoor
thanks mansoor, i hope i make a good wife :)
its all about sacrifices... respecting & understanding each other.. loving each other without boundaries or limits...
I LOVE THIS! Allah yewaf2ek :)
Men should take note of this; A woman was taken out of man; not out of his head to top him, nor out of his feet to be trampled underfoot; but out of his side to be equal to him, under his arm to be protected, and near his heart to be loved.... enough said.
bravo dina..u hit the nail
its essential that all wome should be aware of the fact that men are mean they dont intentionaly ignore our needs,,even if these needs are too obvious to us..
you want anything..tell him dont wait for him to guess it..he wont.anything bothering you tell him..but in a suitable time and maner..bedoon ma tgazizi
and btw..i love ur bagara..lazem ne3malha mosalsal
ana kan asdi men are notmean
bas not we23at..:D
WALEK DINA!!! OH MY GOD!!! I always visited your blog but never knew it was YOU walek am shocked now shocked el 3adiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
did you know i was ramoy ?? ya la2eeeeeeeeeeeeemeh!!
Anyways this is reema faour :)
kheyani!! i seriously never knew it woz you walech!! ana hassa masdoom!!
I love your cartoons! I was just checkn em out on face book!!
masdoooooooooooooooooooooom ana!!
Hii Dandoon.. I recommend u to read this book Men Are from Mars Women Are from Venus… its very very nice book, it shows the differences between man and women and the differences in the way of thinking, life, love…. Its important for both Male and Female to realize that every one is different and has his own thinking and his own perspective to the issues, and its also important for the couples to know that they cant totally change each other rather than accept him/her as he/she is, just adapt to each other, respect, understand, love him/her as he/she is full package
mrs al ramahi :) ya 3aroosa inti il dayman fahmaaani
drama d... love what you wrote... really i do.. so true :)
jasmina :) hehe yes but i say that in the nicest way possible..
mala2e6 :) min wayn la3a6eeni inti? hehe i totally agree with you i love how u said : bidoon tagzeez lol havent heard that word in a while! lol
so u want to make a musalsal for my bagara... yala sho mistanyeh?
ramoy... min mata 3inditch bloj?? lol its soooo funny that u read my blog all this time wihtout knowing it was me!! TAb ya3ni come on... even people who dont know me that well knew it was me from the bagara love and chocolate obsession lol
nona thanks for the tip i always wanted to read that book but never really did.. i heard it was very useful for some woman ;)
And yes people should accept each other the way they are rather than trying to change one another.. but that doesnt mean that you shouldnt discuss your differences..
i personally believe it is healthy to be starightforward to say what bothers you and to hear what bothers the other person.. and if there is something each one of us can change to make the other person happier.. something we are unaware of and will take notice of in the future than it would be good for the relationship and only bring you closer...
As long as it is not a major issue.. and you are not trying to change a quality or attribute in that person's idenity and that like for ex. (" pls don't leave the toothpaste cap off") that could bother some woman and asking him that would not be an attempt to change him but to change an action...
but what i also realized is that when you ask someone to change all thier actions it is kind of like asking him to change his idenity too..
ok im blabbing again..
i guess after a while people grown on to each other & maybe us woman should start a healthy " self-consturctive critisism" session everytime we feel we are being too critical of our men
Hi,,,
I am one of your silent fans i don't usually write much because i never know what to say plus i think you already know how special and creative you are!
BUT i have to say i really LOVE your blog & check it everyday!
I'm officially addicted !
So how is your dad?
Hope he is better now
Rida
I.C. if u really like to read this book i have it PDF file so i can send it to your email, and in the same time ill gain u as new freind , if u like tab3an :PP
thanks rida i am flattered .. even i dont check my blog everyday :P
nona SURE i'd love that...
i checked ur profile there is no email to send to.. keef tayib hala2?
mission done.. i sent it, let me know if u recive it, pluss hl2 i added u to my msn
" men think they are complex when in reality they are really simple & easy to understand if you knew them well... Men are like big babies... "
So what now, you're defending men, and you are a woman :).I think some men think they are simple while in reality they are so complex.
Nada
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