Monday, June 17, 2013

SuperMama SuperStress SuperMan *giggles




im sure alot will be thinking.. yeee 33alieena another Mommy Post... Bedha t7amelna jmeeele again ( (translation : she wants to carry a beauty on us  :p) that she is a mother.. like we used to feel when our moms gave us lectures about motherhood and reminded us of pregnancy and said

" bukra betshoofi bas yseer 3andek wlaad" and we would say.. yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee 3alieeenaaaaa


Life passes by so fast and when i get a moment of silence and actually have the ability and time to look back at my life.. like right now when kol 7ada nayem.. and im resisting the urge to sleep although i think i might fall asleep before i finish this post.. twitches

*ighmaa2 on keyboard

eihweihfifhtioghgfhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

* wakes up from MAC ding ding ding from keys being pressed by dinos nose

So as i was saying.. its not the physical part of motherhood that is the hardest part.. suddenly pregnancy and labor and all that pain seems like nothing compare to the emotional stress and vulnerability mothers can feel.

It starts when we are pregnant and start feeling bad for breaking the rules and not eating right all the time.. thats when the motherhood guilt starts.. the guilt comes with the worrying.. am i doing everything right. will the baby be okay.. how will i go home with this little nu2ta??

you start freaking out about how tiny the baby is... your body feels like it has been hit by a train but the love you feel is overwhelming.. you no longer live for yourself. you live for your baby.. and as days go by you start to get the hang of it.. you learn the best ways to close the diapers so that they are no leakage accidents.. you are brave enough to bathe your tiny baby without the help of your mother or mother in law.. you try to do everything by the book.. only you have no timeor patience  to actually read A book!

24 hours a day for the rest of your life you will be constantly worrying and thinking about your children.. in your eyes they will always be the baby you held in your arms that day after alf saneh of labor...

i used to think the hardest part was labor.. till after labor.. the i thought the hardest part was the sleepless nights... till my baby start sleeping through the night only she was walking now and i worried about her hurting herself all day long..and so on.. truth is it doesn't get easier... every age has its difficulties and challenges.. and i feel like a failure most of the time and i will ball my eyes out almost everyday because i always feel that i did something wrong...

i especially feel that when my law law is throwing a tantrum in the mall and ppl give me the " bta3rafeesh trabee look"

or when a mother stops you from giving her kid "Cheerios" ( which to me were a healthy snack) because they have sugar.. *GASPS * dina hides bags of chips and chocolates

i know i make mistakes.. and we all do.. but i have to stop beating myself about it and start looking at all the things i did right instead of all the things i have done wrong.

the most important thing is that i will do my best to be a super mama... i am not superman.. i mean superwoman..

speaking of superman... Salmooli 3alieh * giggles like a 13 yr old muraaheqa

Astagherulllaaah.. yala qooolo ma3ay  " Ya Rab ma teftin Dina fe Deeeenha" :P

Ameeeen...

 * someone throws shibshib at dino.. is that Sheeshany?? oh thanks thats one of my shabashib ive been looking for it

You know watching the movie superman made me realize that usually im sitting there watching a movie ma3 ba3li and all sorts of Gamameer come on screen wa lazim faj2a tma6er wa yghayroo malabess wa hakaza... its the first time there was not much ladies but focus on il wad il Super * evil laugh

and i want to say... GUYS how did you feel watching the movie next to your gamoorat?? did you feel like you wanted to punch him? did you feel like you dont want to be compared ?

Did you wish he was SUPERFAT like this ?


Did you feel your blood was boiling at the thought that the person you love would ever compare you to that? l well that is usually how us woman feel when you stare at ridiculously hot woman on tv!

Dino yells : Hathol il Setaaat Ma bikhalfooosh ( someone yells  ANGELLINAA has 20 walad)...ermmmm

ok ok .. dina ends argument before ma tkhabes haha


Shoofo.. i started talking about Motherhood.. and somehow ended talking about Superman.. and it seems any conversation or topic i have with anyone leads to this same topic

*sighs

on a serious note.. Allahum balighna Ramadan.. wa ihdeeena wa ij3al kol zawj fe 3ayn zawjto Superman wa a7la kaman  :)

Ana zowji tab3an bya3raf he is my superman mini zaman ba2olo hayk ( 7aqeeqah ) wa aydan tar2eee3

.. wa akeed ba3looolu  by3arf ino il soora hay il feeha ana wa superman is just il nas bet7awel twa2e3 bayna .. ma kaan fee bayna ishi.. bas kont bawka3 min il sutu7 wa ana banshur il ghaseelat wa lagafni suBarman..

innocent wag3a.. i bromise :p



1 comment:

Haitham Jafar said...

I wish there were more (and most kaman) super-women :P

heheeee

honestly I liked the (wisdom) in this entry :)
not like u don`t have wisdomZ in others but this one was kind of different (I guess I`m trying to say that u r getting old...er!) :P

I do regret missing my target with the shibshib! but it`s ok, el zaman 6aweel

:D
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* it never gets easy, that`s for sure.
with every step there r additional hardships and -also- the old ones do not disappear!

I think it`s only natural that one of the parents is the overprotective one and the other is the balancer one (I can invent words too u know! :P)
Moms r normally the former type, u species do suffer a lot b sara7a, jad Allah ya36eekon l 3aaaaafyah (I can`t blv I`m saying this :@)

bas jad u put a lot into the parenting (game), we r just too unpatient nor wired to handle it like u do.

I am the overprotective type in our family, always ,always worried and building worst-case scenarios in my head and just over doing it, but my wife l 3azeezah actually worries + does something bwt it! :) but it is on the expense of her time, energy, and nerves! (shopping does not help as I`m a no-fun-shopper & she has no support around here) :D

"lazim y5arrebha l sheeshany, mosta7eel y7ky sha3'leh mnee7a o ymarregha 3a 5air"

superman is overrated, bishe3 o labes his underwear inside-out! sho 3ajebkom feeh , eh!
hahaaaa

*back to super-women daydreaming*
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**share some chocolate with the 2 lolo`s, 7aram 3alaiky!
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btw, look, look,, 3asfoor waraki! *haitham throws sandal 5ashab min tab3oon zaman, l thgal o bwaj3o*

superman shows up and saves dino`s back head from permanent damage!

*haitham curses, but in 7alal terms, ok, not 7alal but it`s in chechen & u`ll never know!*