Tuesday, June 26, 2007

Why DoeS it Always Rain On Me?




i don't like to be negative.. and i don't like to believe that there is such a thing as bad luck... i don't like how people say everything is " 7asad" or "3ayn".. thier son trips they go like " ma7soood".. ( it could always be that he was running on wet floor)
someone gets a ZIT on their face.. they say its " 3ayn"
i usually would have said.. come on people.. 3ayn does exist but don't let it be the constant thought in your head...

but.. with the recent events... i've been told wallah hay " 3ayn 3alieki"... maybe its true because its unnatural what has been going on...

ofcourse you are all updated with the events in my life... most recent event is... that sharjah recently decided to make a RULE... awal ma they heard i am getting married.. they decided to make a rule that doesn't allow "ZAFFA" in hotels.. hmmm

i won't have a party... pretty much zaffa WAS the wedding... so now i have to look for another place in dubai... not only that.. the guy who was going to print my wedding cards... disappeared... one day he said i'm coming to your office 2moro.. next thing i know he doesn't pick up and is in india for an emergency...

all i seem to be hearing is bad news! mom's car broke down for no reason.. my friend's dad is in the hospital with a brain stroke like my dad.. my friend at work canceled her wedding because her uncle and grandmother are both extremely sick...another friend canceled her wedding because her dad got a brain stroke too..

Soooo.. what is going on? mawsim il jaltat wil wedding cancellation? is it possible someone has "3ayn" vibes spread on all the world especially the 3arayis!

people used to tell me " khaaafo min il 3anayhom zuru2 wa snaaanhum furu2" " you should fear those with blue eyes and a gap in between their teeth"

it is said that "3aynhum bitseeeb" lol

soo what about hazel eyes? do contacts affect the intensity of the "3ayn"?
hmmm what if someone had the "LAZIC" operation... would he have lazer 7asad? lol

i'm not saying 7asad & 3ayn don't exist.. they do.. and maybe i have been ma7sooda or 3alay il 3ayn.. but it's also maktoob 3ala every person what will happen to them... thinking WHY will drive you mad... just say al hamdulilah.. and know its for the best... if you feel better blaming it on your blue-eyed snaan furug neighbor then do that ... or blame it on that girl who stared at you all day long... blame it whoever you want...

whatever floats your boat :)

16 comments:

nona said...

I love ur post, its really problem in our Arab society. I do believe in envy and such things but for cretin extend. And I hear the same about the blue eyes and gapped teeth its funny maybe it true... Unfortunately I’d love to add my self in ur wedding cancellation list.. because also my wedding cancelled and changed not only like this it will be transferred to another country to UAE inshalah, so I need to prepare for the wedding party and dress bla bla bla again from A to Z. its just CRAZY

Oriental Arabesque said...

one can't help but think "why me" :'( when all this happens in a very short time!
why does it go smoothly with others but when it comes to me things get complicated?!

having a strong faith is the only thing that can get us out of this and can keep the black thoughts from hunting our heads amd turning our lives into a series of depressions

May God be with you, with your friends and with all 3arayes
and hope all this hard time will be rewarded greatly...mafi shi bedee3 3and Allah akeed :)

Islamic ChoCoHoLic said...

nona.. u just proved my point.. what is up with wedding postponing and cancellation and masayib!!

i know another girl who moved her wedding plan to a different country a month ago lol

the process is.... GNAAAN

Islamic ChoCoHoLic said...

omg oreintal inti kaman? what u said... akhh u took the words right out of my mouth but we shouldnt say that or think that way.. it's me because God wants that... and Why only God knows and probably i will find out later... we just need patience and a LOT of it...

ina ma3 al 3usr yusra

did i mention that everywhere we want is fully booked for the honeymoon?

*sigh

al hamdulilah

MQabbani said...

just to let u know am Back ...

need time to read ur posts ;)

BRB

Anonymous said...

I thought that people should turn "Green" with envy once they are envious lol.


3isam

Islamic ChoCoHoLic said...

mq back min wayn?

3isam

liesh green mush fustugi? :P

MQabbani said...

from Syria

was internetless plus blogspot mamnoo3 "Blocked " so its slow to open and read

and life goes on... said...

I've never believed in hasad and 3ain because the people keep saying it's 3ain for whatever happens, so if your nail gets broken you'd say 7asad,, anything and everything would be 7asad.. but lately i've been through certain events that made me believe that 7asad exists.. and that 3ain is 7a'! So im learning to talk less about my personal life, and to keep my happiness for myself or to share half of it.. i used to think that my happiness would not be complete unless it's shared with people but now i know for a fact that my happiness would not last if shared with people!

kinzi said...

Habeebti, I dont' believe any of that can counteract the good plans of a good God for His children. The Bible says it rains on the just and the unjust, some times bad things happen to good people. Part of how we handle it, in faith, trusting in God's control, will determine our character development.

HeNnNnNoOoOoO said...

Hi
I think this is really hasad.. YOu have to read( Athkar Al Saba7 + Al Masa2) always, & it will go inshallah..

by the way if you need are looking for a hotel in dubai , U should check Taj Palace where i did my wedding in... there is no drinks there...

regards,

Islamic ChoCoHoLic said...

mqabbani you actually tried to access my blog from syria? im flattered :)

hamdila 3al salameh then

life goes on... you know i too have come to that conclusion that no matter what people will not be happy for you and maybe for things to work out you should keep your mouth shut :P

it's just hard sometimes when its in your nature to be happy for others and when you only find happiness when sharing it with people.. then its a problem


kinzi..
you r right... bad things happen to good people and good things happen to bad people sometimes too.. does'nt mean its not fair.. God knows that there is a reason behind everything and we just need to keep our faith strong to overcome the difficulties in life...

Anonymous said...

I'm with people who are Jelouse and envious from others , it's not thier fault that they don't have what those they envy have :).


Samer

Jasmina said...

Dino, walla these things happen especially when you are celebrating something. Try to read sooret "Al-Baqara" every three days, inshallah kollo lakhair ya rab.

Anonymous said...

Maybe these are just signs from God and YOU have to figure out why they're happening?
Your brother in Islam.

Islamic ChoCoHoLic said...

samer there is a difference between envy and 7asad... 7asad means you pray that the person's ni3meh will go away... to want something someone else has is normal.. its human nature.. but what is not right is to want things just for yourself and no one else.. & not to be happy for other people

jasmina thank you i will do that inshala..

anonymous... ok they could be signs that i have to focus more on the things that matter in life.. my faith & iman.. i was much better before and inshala i will work on that ... al bala2 is to ykafir thnoob and when a person is too caught up in life they need some reality slaps to get them back on track..

inshala khier.. i know everything is khier :) al hamdulilah...