Wednesday, July 25, 2007

The Countdown HAS BEGUN


So... on a less depressing note... i'm getting married ( INSHALA ) :)

irdaa al nasss ghaya la tudrak... so whatever i do... or don't do... i will always here criticism complaints and negative comments... been driving myself mad trying to think of how to make everyone happy... including myself.. and well.. that is not exactly possible...

yes dad is still recovering and his recovery will take months.. even years... some suggested i wait for a couple of years before i get married.. others said i should not even wear a white dress... people said all sorts of things.. and what i have to say is that.. AL hamdulilah baba is ALIVE... he will be better with time inshala...

it's been around 5 months now and having a small wedding dinner does not mean i'm selfish.. it does not mean i don't care about my dad's current situation.. it just means life goes on and i know if was able to speak he would be the first to tell me to go on with this...

i am sad because i will not have the dream of him walking me down the aisle... but la i3tirad 3aala qada2 Allah... wa i still want what every girl lives her whole life dreaming of... a BEAUTIFUL WEDDING DAY...


INshala all goes well.. 6 DAYS left....

the thought that im going to a wedding where im THE BRIDE is just not sinking in :S

cow is also stressed with me! Allah ytamem 3ala khier

17 comments:

The Mo said...

Hope he gets well soon =)

بارك الله لك ، وبارك عليك ، وجمع بينكما في خير

The Observer said...

Ishalla ya rab :)

Don't bother yourself with others opinions! Just enjoy your big night to the max!

kinzi said...

Dino, habeebti, and Mr. Dino, I wish people didn't force you to in anyway minimize the celebration of your wedding.

I know the depth of your love for one another won't be measured by how many people or how loud the music. Enjoy yourselves, and know my prayers are with you!!

"He who has found a wife has found a good thing, and obtains favor with the Lord".

(Tell Cow to lay off the Pepsi before The Big Day!!)

MQabbani said...

Allah yeser lek kel she 3ala ahwan al Asbab

o things Go super fine with u :)

keep ur smile up and really dont care about other's talk

al mohem 2nti :)

ta7yati to Ahmad too , he's name Ahmad wallah ana 5ateret

Rebecca said...

May you be blessed on your wedding day, and may the blessings grow every year.

(PS. Tell Cow she is a very cute flower girl.)

Anonymous said...

Why do you personify an animal , your cow that is?



Ma3en

Bos6ar Gadeem said...

توكلي على الله .. بأعتقادي أنك اتخذت القرار السليم. و تأكدي بأن والدك - شافاه الله - سيكون أكثر الناس سعادة بفرحك حتى وهو يمر بأصعب الأوقات
بالتوفيق و السعادة انشاء الله

Drama Div@ said...

Another 6 days to go? Are you nervous? Hope all goes well! Hope your wedding is amazing and your honeymoon extraordinary! Can’t wait to hear the wedding update.

xoxo: div@

Bahareh said...

Allah yetamemlek 3ala khair ya Dandoon.. Mabrouk 7abibti.. ignore what others say.. akeed your dad is so happy...

Miss sea lover said...

i guess u said it by urself, ppl will never be satisfied...so do what makes u happy..and have what u deserve...wish u happiness and endless love

rare said...

Baraka Allaho Lakoma, w baraka 3alykoma, w jama3 bynakom bl khair ...

Inshallla ur dad will get well soon
...

Good luck n ur new life :)

Jasmina said...

Dinooo, the day before yesterday I was driving and thinking about you, I prayed so much for you and your dad.

Well, don't listen to people at all, do what your heart tell you to do. I'm experiencing the same thing but for my engagement and I had enough from people, finally I decided not to invite anyone :D It's my engagement, I only want to be with my fiance :)

Twakkali 3ala alla ou inshalla kollo khair ya rab.. good luck 7abibti ou mabrouk.

russells@teapot said...

Have a nice wedding and make sure to save most time and attention for your husband and vice versa. Have some helpers to care about the guests. You will remember this day your whole life. So make a beautiful one of it. ciau ciau

Hala said...

You must be nervous, no? But happy at the same time.

I hope your dad gets well soon!

Alf mabrook :)

Manal O. said...

Dandooneh i feel so bad that I wont b able to come to ur wedding :(
u know 7bibti ppl just love to talk, they just enjoy cretisizing others for no reason, and blv me non of those ppl is as strong as u r, coz doing what ur doing needs a big deal of strength and faith. and as u said if ur dad cud talk he will diffently ask u to go on with ur wedding.. Allah yhaneekom oo ywaffe2kom ya rab.. my heart is with u my sweet friend

ArabLady said...

i dunno if i were in ur place what i would do.. i remember my bro refused to get married until he sees dad fully recovered..i think its life..parents spend their lives raising their kids..& then khalas..each choose his own way

its life again

wish u all the best

Mitsuki said...

All the best ..
Do what you beleive is right and ignore ppl's talks cause they alwys will