Tuesday, February 14, 2006

V@lenTiNe$ D@Y


i am warning you.. im still followed by a negative cloud that is raining on my head! Today everyone seems to be in love walking around smiling with roses and boxes of chocolates... yes i dont belive in valentines day.. yes even if i did celebrate it i would not be today... but still its just that sometimes ppl over do it with the whole IM in LOVE Mood! i mean u see all those couples that cant get thier hands off each other... walking around.. being all cheesy.. " i wuv u shnukums" " i wuv u buttercup" *walk away holding hands.. sometimes for some weird reason each one has his hand in the other persons jeans backpocket!? emmm.. are u tryin to steal each others wallets? hmm maybe its a weird tradtion im not familiar with...

Anyway... come on we have to be realistic here... love does exist yes.. but i think we all agree that love after marraige is not like love b4 marraige, b4 kids... that a man after marraige is not the same man b4 marraige.. b4 marraige all he does is think of ways to please you and make u happy.. ways to win ur heart.. when he finally wins ur heart.. slowly his attentions is diverted to the tv,food,friends,anything but u... u start having to TELL him what to do.. TO REMind him that he loves u... TO REMIND him how HE WAS b4!! anyway... i am not married.. and everyday i see couples that disappoint me.. im not talkin just brad & jen or jessica simpson *nick.. im talkin real life couples... not all end in a divorce but all seem to go downhill... not once have a met a couple that is 100% happy or satisfied.. there is always the after marraige surprises...

As if i needed more psychological problems.. all seem to be experts in love and want to give ME advice abt marraige and say things likke.. DONT GET MARRIIED LIVE UR LIFE! AS SOON AS UR married ur life is over! one look at my parents and well other old married couples and i tihnk OH MY GOD! I dont want that! yes im different.. and each one of us is!

ARE we all doomed to the same FATE?! im usually very optimistic but lately ive just been freakin out abt this whole subject.. i actually felt sorry for those ppl who are sooo obssessed with the idea of everlasting love.. even if love lasts its not the same love.. its like a different type of love that lasts... its no longer the passionate love .. but the compassionate love..sometimes even turns to HATE!! i dont want that!! i dont want a boring relationship! if all marraiges will end up the same id rather be single! as long as there is CHOCOLATE im Fine! who needs LOVE!!!

*sigh.. ok confession.. i sometimes do feel a need to be in love... but i resort to chocolate hehe :P today was one of those days.. i guess the idea of getting chocolates from someone special was nice... *sigh....

the sappy love songs on the radio arent helping... *munches on chocolate



22 comments:

SK said...

On my way to work....but tossing this idea of love around.
It is a huge concept. Will drop my thoughts by later...

Have a good day

mudassar said...

hi chocolate, sorry i dont kno ur name.. so how as ur valentines day.. my day is lame

Islamic ChoCoHoLic said...

hey sk! i tossed the idea of love away for valentines day! hehe

mudassar.... call me dino... and well it was like any other day only felt annoyed by those lovey dovey couples who just act like if u dont havea ove life ur pathetic! *sigh

SK said...

Ok, love. I dont know. *shrugs*

Lets talk about chocolate. Chocolate loves me and I love it. And all that Valentines chocolate on sale today made me happy.

Love is in your head. If you feel it then it is there. And on Valentines Day guys do things for their wives and girlfriends because if they dont they will be in big trouble. Another commercial money grab, in my humble opinion.

yup, just another sappy day.

Started another book....Beloved by Toni Morisson. Man, am I struggling with it. She is a great writter though. I just have to open my mind a little more.

Have a good day Dino.

mudassar said...

assallamu allaikum dino. ya i guess u r rite when i went to the jumiera beach with my friend i saw so many couples and they made us feel that go get marry soon. u wont belive i was there till 2.a.m in the night still so many couples were coming. guess wat and i was not able to work in the office the next day cause i was felling so sleepy and i started wondering why did i go to the beach..

hey dino may be if u fall in love some day then feb14 will be something special for u..

Islamic ChoCoHoLic said...

sk yes.. chocolata def loves me .. but i guess even chocolate is not my friend cause eating way too much chocolate will make me fat! hehe

glad that day is over!! so u advice me to read the book? let me know...

Mudassar.. maybe ur right.. but i dont see myself falling in love anytime soon.. maybe im too picky.. maybe everyone is just too short for me hehe but for now im happy with chocolate lol

thansk for stoppin by

mudassar said...

what is ur fav chocolate? any plans for this weekend dino?

mudassar said...

from now one lemme call u choco dino.. so miss choco dino do u have any plans for this weekend other than eating chocolates..

Islamic ChoCoHoLic said...

well not really.. just chilling at home mayeb might go out to see friends .. im about to go watch big mamas house 2... myabe not.. sigh i need somethin interesting and exciting in my life... ill get a pet alligator heh

Islamic ChoCoHoLic said...

oh forgot to answer ur question.. my fav chocolate.. hmm lets see.. i am not a huge fan of dark chocolate.. and i am not prejudice so i love chocolate of all shapes and colors eheh but i think the top of my list is swiss chocolate! patchi! nutella! i can go on forever... btw dont get teh wrong idea im not like always stuffin my face with chocolate.. but id love to hehe.. but i worry i can get fat! and well everything has its price and lets say more like CALORIES! *sobs

mudassar said...

uuuuh it hurts pet alligator, u must be crazy :) why dont u go for a pet elephant.. today my office is only til 4 cause thursday.. planning to go to Al-ain with my cousin and friend tonight inshallah. the is the first time i am going there so kind of excited. u have fun and have a nice weekend. may Allah bless u with joy and tons n tons of diet free chocolates :)

Islamic ChoCoHoLic said...

oh yeay al ain... sounds fun... have fun ! yes thursday half day! where do u work? what do u do? u dont have to answer if its too personal heh i tend to get nosy sometimes..

GOd bless u mudassar :) have a great day

mudassar said...

since u r a graphic designer then u must be a very creative person and if u r a creative person then u must be seeing so many cartoons.. which is ur fav cartoon? my all time fav cartoons are tom and jerry, buggs bunny, road runner and johny bravo. hey it was nice chatting with u.. sounds like u r a very sweet person mashallah jus like chocolate :)

Islamic ChoCoHoLic said...

i love Cow&chicken, dexter,johny bravo,sponge bob! pretty much all cartoons hhehe i dont think ill ever grow up! heh pet elephant! eeek?! reminds me of the time an elephant SNEEZEd n my face when i went to the zoo as a kid! it was a horrible experience! haha dont think ill ever forget that nasty feeling !

have u ever seen an elephant sneeze? things like that happen to me and only me.. my life is an adventure! heh

mudassar said...

so cute elephant sneeze. i love elephants. did u see the movie george of the jungle, if not i would recomend u see that.

Islamic ChoCoHoLic said...

seen it lol im a movie freak... they are goin to show the movie Animal i think on channel 2 soon.. its hilarious! u have to see it if u havent! its hilarious!

mudassar said...

i have seen that movie too. it is seriously hilarious! i think they r gonna show it on monday night channel 2. speaking about hilarious stuff i think no one can beat jim carrey. he is the guy! he know how to make people laugh jus like u..

mudassar said...

okay hey i am leaving now.. u have a nice week end.. see u on saturday morning insahallah..

Islamic ChoCoHoLic said...

haha yes jim carrey is hilarious! oh i was told that if i lived another life i was stand up comedian in it! ehheh

thanks mudaasr have a great week! :)

another movie i love was hot chicks and white chicks i think hehe whats up with me and animals and chicks lol but i loved those movieS!

SK said...

Dino....what have I missed ?

SK said...

Do I recomend the book Beloved ?...not really. I think I am picking heavy and sad books these days. I am wallowing in something.

I didnt just buy chocolate yesterday ( which I eat in moderation, I must admit, not interested in being fat either) but I got a huge bag of those little candy hearts that have words on them...kissme..luv u...be mine..etc. They all taste good except the pink ones..they taste like crap. Like some kind of bad medicine. Even as a kid I remember that.

Sneezed on by an elephant ? The visual on that is so gross. When I was a kid our dog used to sneeze on me alot, I just wiped it on my shirt and life went on. But an elephant. That is like the mega extreme.

I am still grossed out. How am I going to eat lunch now ? Way to go Dino.

Yes, think about that stand up comedian thing. Start by making up a routine..about your childhood ( add the elephant thing in there) and try it on your friends. I have no doubt you will be a hit.

Good weekend

Islamic ChoCoHoLic said...

hey sk!! thanks for the tips lol haha when im famous ill remember u !! hehe oh those big bags of tiny chocolateS! dont u just love them! u eat like 1000 tiny ones not feeling bad cause they are tiny haha forgettting that u just stuffed ur face with 3 whole bags lol its psychological! hehe

well i dont like straweberry filled chocolate or even the orange filling! sorry abt the graphic image u had with me and Dumbo ! well it was more like dumbo;s mom! remember that cartoon? Dumbo? the one who flys with his ears? hmmm its just hit me his name was Dumbo!! hehe

neway... i am sittin at home.. alone. in a rather dim room.. only light isee is the blinding light of my labtop.. just ate some pasta that i cooked today *pats herself on the back for a good job
well pretty much the lighting and the bloated feeling doesnt help in making the rainy cloud go away..

sings " why does it always rain on me...lalalal"

im bored... feel there is soo much to do.. soo many books to read.. places to be.. ppl to see.. yet what do i do? sit home alone.. avoid all contact with homosapians... today is just not my day...

i might go for a walk... get some endorphins!!

have a great weekend Sk !! and i suggest u throw depressing books away! read charlies chocolate factory or somethin lol