ok lets talk abt love? what is love?! they say u get the same feelings of love when u eat chocolate! hmmm does love fade with time?! somethin to think about....IF Romeo and Juliet didnt die would they have gotten married and lived happily ever after or filed for a divorce a couple of years later?! All those sad love stories that end with someone dying.. if they ever did end up together... would they have been that much in love?!
Why is it that we all want what we cant have... i mean for example.. a guy would be soo nice and totally in love with u.. sees u as vision he never dared to dream.. (cheesy yes)... yet u fall for that guy who doesnt know u exist who passes by and doesnt look ur way.. sigh... why is it that we always go for ppl who are hard to get?? im generalizing here... but usually we go for those ppl who we feel we cant get or are uninterested.... its like a saying in arabic
" il mamnoo3 marghoob"... meaning... whats is forbidden is always what is desired ... i do admit sometimes when a guy overdoes it with the " ur too good to be true" talk its annoying.. its like that suffocating type of love!! something sweet every once in while is cute.. but when u keep sayin sweet things all day.. its not as special as it would be if someone said something they really meant..
i agree that woman are hard to figure out.. if a guy is mean we say.. oh he is a jerk! show off! ignores me !psssht *rolls eys ... if he is writing us poetry and sending us roses every day we think.. hmmm ok maybe he is too clingy" BE A MAN!" as pheobe from friends would say!hahah
women in general are more in touch with thier emotions and more emotional than men.. men seem to always be in another world.. we are never on the same page... yet we spend our lives tryin to figure out how to communicate... some fail miserably and resort to becoming GAY!! hmmm not a great solution though... *pukes
i guess even we dont know what we want...wonder how mel gibson knew in "What women want".. i guess its only if u like the guy that no matte how clingy he is .. ud still think its cute...
when the ONE comes along.. no matter how dorky he might look or sound..no matter how cliny he could get.. no matter what his is... love is blind.. and no glasses or lazic operation can make u see the flaws in the person u love... sometimes even his flaws are cute to u! *Sigh...
*violin plays in the background
but on a serious note.. i personally believe the only love that is true is when its dont the right way... Islam does not support any premarital relations...its pointless to get urself into a relationship that could or could not end in marraige.. mostly its a NOT... so why put urself through the trouble or heartache.. when the right guy comes along.. and he is truely serious abt you he would knock on your door rather than stalk u in malls tryin to give u his DIGITS or even ask to be your "boyfriend" till he is READY..
well... then God will definetly bless ur marraige and your love will last Por epper and eper and EPper :P (forever in a weird accent )